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Family is the smallest organization in the world. It is largest in number. Parenthood is the best feeling in the world. To nurture child in best possible way is challenge as well as the feeling of achievement. As family is first place to learn for any child; very special responsibility is of parents that they do the best for them. Parents are undisputed next to the God. Every parent tries to give the best to their loved ones.But, parenting is a skill.Here, in this section; we are going to put some simple questions regarding parenting; so we request you to answer them with sincerity and honesty.The questions are as follows:

(a)Do you really give quality time to them?
(b)Do you listen and understand them?
(c)Do you implement whatever you preach?
(d)Do you give respect to one another in family?
(e)Are you really concerned about their future?
(f)Do you make them dependent/independent?
(g)Do you give conditional love/unconditional love?
(h)Do you compare all the time?
(i)Do you really appreciate/discourage them?
(j)Do you supervise/interfere in their life?
(k)Do you bribe them?
(l)Do you follow values and principles?
(m)Do you have communication gap?
(n)Do you understand generation gap?
(o)Do you suppress them?
(p)Do you always give them to do/not to do list?
(q)Do you give them chance to make mistakes?
(r)Do you trust them?
(s)Do you always have list of complaints against them?
(r)Do you want them to live life of your choice/their choice?
(t)Do you have high expectations from them?
(u)Do you criticize them for many things?
(v)Do you want them to achieve whatever you could not?
(w)Do you think that you are worth being a role model for them?
(x)Are you aware of you child's hidden talent?
(y)Do you have family mission statement?
(z)Do you really know them?????????????????   
In these questions you will find the answers of all your pains & problems.So we request all the parents to please think about these b'coz ultimately its regarding the future of those to whom you love the most..Take some time out for your children. They really need you. If you wish to share anything regarding parenting please call/sms without hesitation...... Thank you. 

Parents(2)

In the last article we talked about general pains of parents. It is duty of parents that they nurture their child keeping in mind the fact;as well said that," instead of giving a fish everyday,teach your child how to catch fish." Means make child independent and skillful.Why in majority of cases result is not as per expectations. Today we will discuss underlying reasons(problems) for these pains.Some of problem behind these pains are as follows:
(a) Lack of healthy communication
(b) Lack of trust
(c) Family not based on principles
(d) Too much interference,checks & controls
(e) Unaware of worth and potential of child
(f) Comparing all the time
(g) Highly unreal expectations
(h) Indulgence in win/lose attitude
(i) Wrong paradigm
(j) To give advice without listening & understanding
(k) Lack of genuine concern
(l) Highly possessive & protective
(m)Lack of counselling    etc...
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Parents

Parents are given the position next to God and its very true.Parents live for their children.Parenthood is the best feel in the world. Parents do everything for children.Parents want to give everything to their children,whatever they could not get for themselves. What and where things go wrong that these parents feel that they never thought things would go out of their hands and mess up like this.They generally say where in nurturing they made mistake.Due to this messed up life parents feel some general(personal) pains.Some of the most general(personal) pains of the parents are as follows: 
(a) Stubborn nature of child
(b) Careless & irresponsible
(c) Communication gap
(d) Bad company
(e) Too much demanding
(f) Too much use of electronic gadgets like            
(t.v,mobile,internet & social sites etc.)
(g) Wastage of prime time of life
(h) Comparing all the time
(i)  Bad habits
(j) Misbehavior
(k) Children don't value the principles and values of family
(l) Parents feel Helpless
(m)Parents get stressed
(n) Too much costly education
(o) Unsecured about future of children etc....
If you wish to share any feeling of your regarding the same, please call/sms without hesitation....                   contd.....

Learn how to Crack Exams

Hello Friends;                                                                                                                    
Here comes March month again. Time for your final exams. Time to prove yourself. You know one good reason for taking exams is to test you by all means. For some students its hurdle & difficulty but for others who are well prepared for them it is time to prove themselves. What others take as difficulty they take it as an opportunity. Today we will give you some wonderful tips as to how by using these tips you can convert this difficulty into opportunity and make best use of it. We have divided these tips under four sections :
(1) Go through who­­­le paper in first 10 min: First thing first; go through question paper in first 5-10 min. Benefit is that, you will come to know as to how much easy/ difficult it is for you. if it is easy, you will be relaxed & if you think its difficult for you, in that case you will be mentally prepared to tackle it.... 
(2) Categorize the questions in different parts like A,B,C&D: Once you have gone through question paper categorize it depending on level of difficulty of question. Category may be like this depending on how much % of answer you know of the given question.....                                                                
 A: 100%  B: 80-90%  C: 60-70%  D: Not knowing answer   
This way you will come to know as to level of difficulty of paper for you. While reading question paper put A,B,C,D on the question itself.                            
(3) Always write the answers as per priority&number properly:  Once you have categorized questions, next step is to attempt answers as per category. So first of all A followed by B & C... Very special care should be taken so that you number answers as per you are attempting them....   Category D should be taken in last; So that at least you will have no grudges afterwards for not attempting questions which were easier for you.                                
(4) Things to do/ not to do: While you are in examination hall ;
Things to do are as follows: have patience, be cheerful, focus, concentrate, use presence of mind, be precise in answer, underline important points, write neat & clean, use imagination to recollect, maintain normal speed, manage time, recheck answer sheet in last if you have spare time, control your mind.                                                                  
Things not to do are as follows: no panic, no copying, not looking here & there to friends, no over confidence, no mess up while writing, no frustration, don't get panic in last 30 minutes, don't lose temper for any reason.                                                                                   
 Things to do at home:    
Overcome your fear with your preparation & practice
Take proper sleep before day of exam
Take light breakfast in morning
Get blessing of God & parents

                                                                              Wishing you all the best.

                                                                                                                                        
  

Must Read ... for future of Motherland The INDIA

University: This is the place for specialization.Progress of any nation is determined by things done here.Reason being higher education & research work. Here individual specializes in some particular field of their choice.What to say don't leave any stone unturned. I hope you got  what i mean; Please for God sake, do the best use of your brain here so that something new can come out. Here our purpose is to make persons;  who are:-

• Extremely Competent
• Explore Everthing
• Risk Taker
• Change Catalyst
• Transition Person
• Optimist
• Choose Road Less Traveled
• Value Team Work
• Visionary
• Having Patience
• Disciplined
• Best Executors
• Priortizer
• Courageous
• Having Commitment
• Having Self-awareness
• Having New Ideas
• Curious
• Focused
• Balanced
• Aware of their Potential

Colleges: You are FUTURE MAKERS

College: College life is supposed to be best life.Everybody misses

it later on.Generally said," yeh zindagi na milege dubara".Our motive

is that students during their college life make best use of both the

worlds.They make themselves capable & competent for coming

future in best  possible way. At the same time enjoy the best

 period of life.In this phase special care should be taken so that

 everything is balanced nicely.Whatever you do in this life ,

that will decide rest of your life;Special care should be taken care 

during this phase; so that you :-

• Enhance Ability
• Be Competent
• Be Courageous
• Be Change Catalyst
• Be Transition Person
• Be Visionary
• Be Optimist
• Be Risk Taker
• Be Analytical
• Be Logical
• Have Balanced Life
• Be Responsible 
• Accountable
• Be Proactive
• Be Visualizer
• Be Priortizer
• Do Team Work
• Good Orator
• Have Win /Win mind set
• Be Leader
• Best Manager

Must read for Principals & Parents.............

For Schools: During primary years of schooling students are in molding phase.As well said that you can mold the soil in any shape till it is wet,once dried nothing can be done. Here when students come in school,special care should to be taken so that best habits are developed in them.They need direction in this phase of life.They are best learners  during this phase. It is duty on the part of school & parents collectively that they nurture the kid in the best possible way during this phase. School life is divided into two major stages:
which are as follows: 
Age group 3-5:- LEARNER PHASE :During this time kids just enter 
in all together  new world so called school.After family, second
 place of learning. Here kid  is exposed to new environment of 
learning different things like discipline,rote learning,things to 
do and things not to do etc. During this phase kids  find 
themselves  in a situation where everybody starts expecting a lot
from them directly or indirectly.
Age group 6-11:- CURIOSITY & EXPLORER ;By the age of 6 years
brain is developed to approx 90%. Kids are very curious during
this phase to know about things going on around them.They want
reason and logic for all the things good or bad going on in their
surroundings. Amazingly explorer. In this phase very special care 
should be taken so that: they are;

• encouraged
• appreciated
• answered to questions
• genuinely concerned
• given room to make mistakes
• curious
• allowed to ask questions
• understood first
• listened carefully
• good inquirers
• nature loving
• caring
• given respect
• courageous
• risk takers
• thinkers
• leaders
• good managers
• readers
• speakers & orators
• reflective
• responsible
• initiators
• cooperative
• self sacrificing
• having win/win mind set
• team workers
• having balanced life
• learners
• good at imagination
• expressive
• procative
• best time managers
• having good habits
• good priortizers
• best planners
• best executers
• aware of their roles
• independent
• value interdependence
• disciplined
• well behaved
• communicators
• knowledgeable
• open-minded