Schools

Must read for Principals & Parents:During primary years of schooling students are in molding phase.As well said that you can mold the soil in any shape till it is wet,once dried nothing can be done.Here when students come in school,special care should to be taken so that best habits are developed in them.They need direction in this phase of life.They are best learners during this phase.It is duty on the part of school & parents collectively that they nurture the child in the best possible way during this phase.School life is divided into two major stages which are as follows: 
Age group 3-5:- LEARNER PHASE :During this time kids just enter in all together new world so called school.After family, second place of learning. Here kid is exposed to new environment of learning different things like discipline,rote learning,things to do and things not to do etc. During this phase kids find themselves in a situation where everybody starts expecting a lot from them directly or indirectly.  
Age group 6-9:- CURIOS & EXPLORER ;during this phase 6-9 years, brain is developed to approx 90%. Kids are very curious during this phase,so to know about things going on around them.They want reason and logic for all the things good or bad going on in their surroundings.Amazingly curious & explorer...    As well said by Buckminster Fuller:“All children are born genius; 9999 out of every 10000 are swiftly,unintentionally degeniusized by grown ups.”There is lot between the lines & beyond the lines,So please think deeply. If you wish to share your views on the above topic,please call/sms without hesitation......    Thank you...                Contd.....                                                                                                                                                      

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     

Teachers(3)

Aristotle said,“Those who educate children well are more to be honored than they who produce them; for these only gave them life, those the art of living well.” Teachers have got very special impact on the life of any student.“What the teacher is, is more important than what he teaches.”    Karl A. Menninger. They give directions to the child.As a teacher you have got some special roles to play & goals to achieve.The teacher plays a very crucial role in the making of the Nation.In this section,there is a set of questions for the teachers.Please answer them with honesty and sincerity:
(a)Are you competent enough/average?
(b)Are you visionary?
(c)Are you risk taker?
(d)Do you unleash potential of students?
(e)Do you know the role of a teacher?
(f)Do you have any mission in life to achieve?
(g)Do you implement whatever you preach?
(h)Do you have self-awareness?
(i)Are you a person of character?
(j)Are you updated or stagnant?
(k)Do you know your students?
(m)Are you responsible & accountable?
(n)Are you a change catalyst?
(o)Are you a transition person?
(p)Do you have position authority/moral authority?
(q)Do you have mission statement?   etc.... 
I hope you must have done self evaluation with honesty.Now you can very well see as to which type of the teacher you are; “The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains. The superior teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires.” William Arthur Ward .If you wish to share your views on this topic please call/sms without hesitation......  Thank you.......

Teachers(2)

In the last article we discussed about general pain of teachers. Teacher gives direction to the life of a student.A teacher helps in making the foundation of a Nation.If we realize the importance of the teacher then it becomes even more important to find out the causes(problems) behind these underlying pains.Question arises as to what & where things go wrong that lead to these pains. Some of the major causes (problems) behind these pains are as follows:
(a) Sometimes lack of competence in teachers
(b) Lack of communication
(c) Wrong paradigm
(d) Commercialization of education
(e) High student teacher ratio
(f) Old method of education
(g) Lack of creativity
(h) No personal concern with students
(i) No paradigm shift with time
(j) Stress only on academics
(k) No stress on development of students
(l) Lack of accountability etc……
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Teachers

Teachers play an incredible role in the life of every human being.Aristotle said," parents give life & teachers give art of living life.After parents they are the one who are role models for children.They give direction to life of a student.In The INDIAN culture as well said,"Guru Govind Dou Khade, Kah Ke Lagoon Payein,Balehari Guru Apno Govind Diyo Milaye." This used to be  the status of guru in The Indian culture.What & where things go wrong that teachers feel helpless about the situation?This leads to some general(personal) pains.Some of general(personal) pains of teachers are as follows....
(a) Students are not interested in studies
(b) Too much Tuition
(c) Lack of goal in life of student
(d) Lack of creativity
(e) Parents interference
(f) Comparison among peers
(g) No respect
(h) Lack of co-operation                                                             
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Teenagers(3)

Teenage is the age between 13-19 years. These 7 years of teenage decides the rest of life.So strange that in first 13-19 months of life child is encouraged to walk & speak but during teenage 13-19 years same child is asked to sit & shut up......This is the time to enjoy but at the same time prepare yourself for  the future.As well said;"look ahead & prepare instead of looking back & regretting."During this phase, neither you are a kid nor are you a grown up adult.Teenagers are full of energy, curious, enthusiastic,explorer etc.Teenage is the age of CROSSROAD in the life.Here; everyone has to decide many things like:                                                                                                                         (a)What type of friends to choose?
(b)How to handle peer pressure?
(c)What about studies?
(d)Which stream to choose?
(e)How to handle second identity crisis?
(f)How to avoid bad company? 
(g)How to develop good habits?
(h)How to quit bad habits?
(i)What are the future plans?
(j)How to make oneself competent enough?
(k)How to handle relationships?
(l)How to unleash the potential within?
(m)How to develop leadership qualities?
(n)How to best use both left & right brain?
(o)Whether to live life of chance/choice?
(p)How to do the time-management?
(q)How to prioritize?
(r)How to live a balanced life?
(s)How to bring inside out?
(t)How to develop character?
(u)What should be the center of life?
(v)What's my talent?
(w)Which direction of life am I right/wrong?
(x)Am i fulfilling expectation of my parents?
(y)Am i living a meaningful life?
(z)What is the purpose of my life??????  etc...
If you wish to see"Disha Aur Dasha" of any Nation;Simply look to teenagers of that Nation. B'coz they actually decide it....Behind the success of anything you will always find teenagers e;g mobile,Internet, social sites,cinemas,malls,latest cars etc... Every teenager of today is the future of his family,future of society,future of The INDIA & future of Humanity...Please think about it;ARE YOU PREPARING YOURSELF FOR BIG ROLE TO BE PLAYED BY YOU IN FUTURE???????To share your views please call/sms without hesitation.....

Teenagers(2)

As in the last article,We discussed about the general pains of the teenagers.Now the million dollar question arises as to what are the causes(problems) behind all these pains.Some of major causes(problems) behind all these pains are:
(a) Lack of counselling
(b) Lack of vision
(c) No mission statement
(d) Non-proactive
(e) No time management
(f) Win/lose mind set
(g) Lack of willpower
(h) Quick-fix attitude
(i) Too much use of electronic gadgets
(j) Lack of communication with parents & teachers
(k) Excessive competition
(l) Highly unreal expectation of parents
(m)Lack of creativity in education
(n)Too much burden of studies&tuition
(o)Sometimes,lack of family values 
(p)General attitude of all "kya farak padta hai"  etc....
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Teenagers

Teenage is the age between 13-19(7 years)...Believe me 7 years of teenage decides rest of life!!!!!!!! This is the most exciting phase of life.During this phase every individual is full of energy, enthusiastic,curious & creative etc... Every teenager wants to explore the world in his unique way.They have got so much excitement for the future.This phase is the crossroad of the life. Here everyone has to decide what to do & what not to do?This is phase where exposure is too much without much responsibility.What & where things goes wrong that teenager feels, things are not going the way he expected.Teenagers have got some general(personal) pains in this phase. some of general(personal) pains are as follows:Some of the most general pains of teenagers are;
(a) How to handle peer pressure
(b) Too much comparison all the time
(c) Ruined life following peers
(d) Discouraged by others
(e) Emptiness from inside
(f)  Lack of meaning & purpose in life
(g) Stressed out as if everything is urgent
(h) No one understands me
(i)  Conditional love
(j)  Second identity crisis
(k) Feel of not needed by anyone
(l)  Too much checks and controls
(m) Lack of appreciation
(n) Inferiority complex
(o) Lack of genuine concern
(p) Life out of control
(q) Burden of study and tuition
(r) Pocket money    etc…….
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Kids(3)

When a kid is born, we feel happiest in the world. We see ourselves  in that little kid. Whenever a kid do something good, there is always a statement like  "yeh to mujh par gaya hai."Just imagine a kid come in this world with nothing, but they learn whatever they see. Kid learns the language whichever we speak at home! Their very first education takes place at home itself.They learn automatically whatever is going on around them because they are the best learners at this stage of life. Everything gets recorded in their brain automatically. So special care should be taken that best matter goes into their brain which will make their future bright. Generally, story which started like "yeh to mujh par gaya hai."in just between ages 2-6(four years), statement becomes "yeh bilkul tumhare jaisa hai". It represents a feeling of disappointment. Everybody tries to pass the blame on each other.Now, the question arises.......how & what should be done that the statement becomes"YEH HAMARA BACHA HAI,"a sense of proud & happiness.Here in this section we will mention about few qualities to be developed in child during primary years of their life so as to get best results in future.Some of the best qualities to be developed in kids are as follows:
(a)To enhance grasping power
(b)To enhance ability
(c)To think & inquire
(d)To solve different types of problem by themselves
(e)To make themselves responsible for their actions
(f)To make them competent
(g)To use imaginative powers
(h)To develop proper communication skills
(I)To develop different skills
(j)To develop all intelligence
(k)To be caring
(l)To make them love doing little things 
(j)To gain knowledge & wisdom
(k)To develop their character
(m)To overcome any phobia
(n)To make life well balanced
(o)To respect others
(p)To make them risk takers
(r) To do prioritization       etc.......
I request to all parents in life your child is your real asset.So please give him best foundation of life during childhood. if you want to share any views regarding this please call/sms without hesitation...  thank you.

Kid(2)

In last article we discussed about general pains of kids. I hope even you must have felt pain of kids. Now as we know that child learn all the things at home & school,so what are the causes behind these pains of kids? If you will not understand the underlying causes of these pains,in that case how would you find the solutions.Some general causes(problems) for these pains are as follows:                                                                                                                                                                                                            
(a)Lack Of discipline
(b)Too much use of electronic gadgets (tv, computer, mobile etc.)
(c)Careless attitude of parents
(d)Lack of proper counselling 
(e)No character based education  
(f)No mission statements
(g)Lack of moral values in families
(h)Peer pressure
(i)Comparison all the time
(j)Unnecessary checks & controls
(k)Lack of creativity
(l)Win/Lose attitude
(m)High expectations of parents 
(n)Non concerned attitude in school
(o)Lack of accountability & responsibility 
(p)Suppressible culture of school 
(q)Old ways of teaching & learning  etc……
As well said by Buckminster Fuller:“All children are born genius; 9999 out of every 10000 are swiftly, unintentionally degeniusized by grown ups.”There is lot between the lines & beyond the lines, So please think deeply… If you wish to share your views please call/sms without hesitation.              Thank you.                       Contd...

KIDS

When we think about the Kids one thing that comes into our mind naturally is WOW.We cherish every moment spent with them.They are basically part of us.We give them whole protection and affection. Have you ever thought that just by the time they are of 3 years approx; we expose them to the whole new world like play group,school etc???? We expect them to handle all the things in near perfect way. Is it justified?????                                                        WHERE & WHAT goes wrong that against our own kids to whom we love the most,we make a big list of complaints. Have you ever thought from the view point of a kid; that even they have some complaint from you,the way you behave with them & the system which suppress their identity.. Some of the personal(general) pains of kids are as follows: I request you to please imagine from the perception of a kid....
(a)Nobody understands me
(b)Conditional love
(c)Comparison all the Time  
(d)Stress of learning & cramming
(e)Dominated by others
(f)Feel Neglected
(g)Suppressed
(h)Burden of tuition
(i)No one appreciates me
(j)No one is concerned         Etc.....
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Parents(3)

Family is the smallest organization in the world. It is largest in number. Parenthood is the best feeling in the world. To nurture child in best possible way is challenge as well as the feeling of achievement. As family is first place to learn for any child; very special responsibility is of parents that they do the best for them. Parents are undisputed next to the God. Every parent tries to give the best to their loved ones.But, parenting is a skill.Here, in this section; we are going to put some simple questions regarding parenting; so we request you to answer them with sincerity and honesty.The questions are as follows:

(a)Do you really give quality time to them?
(b)Do you listen and understand them?
(c)Do you implement whatever you preach?
(d)Do you give respect to one another in family?
(e)Are you really concerned about their future?
(f)Do you make them dependent/independent?
(g)Do you give conditional love/unconditional love?
(h)Do you compare all the time?
(i)Do you really appreciate/discourage them?
(j)Do you supervise/interfere in their life?
(k)Do you bribe them?
(l)Do you follow values and principles?
(m)Do you have communication gap?
(n)Do you understand generation gap?
(o)Do you suppress them?
(p)Do you always give them to do/not to do list?
(q)Do you give them chance to make mistakes?
(r)Do you trust them?
(s)Do you always have list of complaints against them?
(r)Do you want them to live life of your choice/their choice?
(t)Do you have high expectations from them?
(u)Do you criticize them for many things?
(v)Do you want them to achieve whatever you could not?
(w)Do you think that you are worth being a role model for them?
(x)Are you aware of you child's hidden talent?
(y)Do you have family mission statement?
(z)Do you really know them?????????????????   
In these questions you will find the answers of all your pains & problems.So we request all the parents to please think about these b'coz ultimately its regarding the future of those to whom you love the most..Take some time out for your children. They really need you. If you wish to share anything regarding parenting please call/sms without hesitation...... Thank you. 

Parents(2)

In the last article we talked about general pains of parents. It is duty of parents that they nurture their child keeping in mind the fact;as well said that," instead of giving a fish everyday,teach your child how to catch fish." Means make child independent and skillful.Why in majority of cases result is not as per expectations. Today we will discuss underlying reasons(problems) for these pains.Some of problem behind these pains are as follows:
(a) Lack of healthy communication
(b) Lack of trust
(c) Family not based on principles
(d) Too much interference,checks & controls
(e) Unaware of worth and potential of child
(f) Comparing all the time
(g) Highly unreal expectations
(h) Indulgence in win/lose attitude
(i) Wrong paradigm
(j) To give advice without listening & understanding
(k) Lack of genuine concern
(l) Highly possessive & protective
(m)Lack of counselling    etc...
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Parents

Parents are given the position next to God and its very true.Parents live for their children.Parenthood is the best feel in the world. Parents do everything for children.Parents want to give everything to their children,whatever they could not get for themselves. What and where things go wrong that these parents feel that they never thought things would go out of their hands and mess up like this.They generally say where in nurturing they made mistake.Due to this messed up life parents feel some general(personal) pains.Some of the most general(personal) pains of the parents are as follows: 
(a) Stubborn nature of child
(b) Careless & irresponsible
(c) Communication gap
(d) Bad company
(e) Too much demanding
(f) Too much use of electronic gadgets like            
(t.v,mobile,internet & social sites etc.)
(g) Wastage of prime time of life
(h) Comparing all the time
(i)  Bad habits
(j) Misbehavior
(k) Children don't value the principles and values of family
(l) Parents feel Helpless
(m)Parents get stressed
(n) Too much costly education
(o) Unsecured about future of children etc....
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Learn how to Crack Exams

Hello Friends;                                                                                                                    
Here comes March month again. Time for your final exams. Time to prove yourself. You know one good reason for taking exams is to test you by all means. For some students its hurdle & difficulty but for others who are well prepared for them it is time to prove themselves. What others take as difficulty they take it as an opportunity. Today we will give you some wonderful tips as to how by using these tips you can convert this difficulty into opportunity and make best use of it. We have divided these tips under four sections :
(1) Go through who­­­le paper in first 10 min: First thing first; go through question paper in first 5-10 min. Benefit is that, you will come to know as to how much easy/ difficult it is for you. if it is easy, you will be relaxed & if you think its difficult for you, in that case you will be mentally prepared to tackle it.... 
(2) Categorize the questions in different parts like A,B,C&D: Once you have gone through question paper categorize it depending on level of difficulty of question. Category may be like this depending on how much % of answer you know of the given question.....                                                                
 A: 100%  B: 80-90%  C: 60-70%  D: Not knowing answer   
This way you will come to know as to level of difficulty of paper for you. While reading question paper put A,B,C,D on the question itself.                            
(3) Always write the answers as per priority&number properly:  Once you have categorized questions, next step is to attempt answers as per category. So first of all A followed by B & C... Very special care should be taken so that you number answers as per you are attempting them....   Category D should be taken in last; So that at least you will have no grudges afterwards for not attempting questions which were easier for you.                                
(4) Things to do/ not to do: While you are in examination hall ;
Things to do are as follows: have patience, be cheerful, focus, concentrate, use presence of mind, be precise in answer, underline important points, write neat & clean, use imagination to recollect, maintain normal speed, manage time, recheck answer sheet in last if you have spare time, control your mind.                                                                  
Things not to do are as follows: no panic, no copying, not looking here & there to friends, no over confidence, no mess up while writing, no frustration, don't get panic in last 30 minutes, don't lose temper for any reason.                                                                                   
 Things to do at home:    
Overcome your fear with your preparation & practice
Take proper sleep before day of exam
Take light breakfast in morning
Get blessing of God & parents

                                                                              Wishing you all the best.

                                                                                                                                        
  

Must Read ... for future of Motherland The INDIA

University: This is the place for specialization.Progress of any nation is determined by things done here.Reason being higher education & research work. Here individual specializes in some particular field of their choice.What to say don't leave any stone unturned. I hope you got  what i mean; Please for God sake, do the best use of your brain here so that something new can come out. Here our purpose is to make persons;  who are:-

• Extremely Competent
• Explore Everthing
• Risk Taker
• Change Catalyst
• Transition Person
• Optimist
• Choose Road Less Traveled
• Value Team Work
• Visionary
• Having Patience
• Disciplined
• Best Executors
• Priortizer
• Courageous
• Having Commitment
• Having Self-awareness
• Having New Ideas
• Curious
• Focused
• Balanced
• Aware of their Potential

Colleges: You are FUTURE MAKERS

College: College life is supposed to be best life.Everybody misses

it later on.Generally said," yeh zindagi na milege dubara".Our motive

is that students during their college life make best use of both the

worlds.They make themselves capable & competent for coming

future in best  possible way. At the same time enjoy the best

 period of life.In this phase special care should be taken so that

 everything is balanced nicely.Whatever you do in this life ,

that will decide rest of your life;Special care should be taken care 

during this phase; so that you :-

• Enhance Ability
• Be Competent
• Be Courageous
• Be Change Catalyst
• Be Transition Person
• Be Visionary
• Be Optimist
• Be Risk Taker
• Be Analytical
• Be Logical
• Have Balanced Life
• Be Responsible 
• Accountable
• Be Proactive
• Be Visualizer
• Be Priortizer
• Do Team Work
• Good Orator
• Have Win /Win mind set
• Be Leader
• Best Manager

Must read for Principals & Parents.............

For Schools: During primary years of schooling students are in molding phase.As well said that you can mold the soil in any shape till it is wet,once dried nothing can be done. Here when students come in school,special care should to be taken so that best habits are developed in them.They need direction in this phase of life.They are best learners  during this phase. It is duty on the part of school & parents collectively that they nurture the kid in the best possible way during this phase. School life is divided into two major stages:
which are as follows: 
Age group 3-5:- LEARNER PHASE :During this time kids just enter 
in all together  new world so called school.After family, second
 place of learning. Here kid  is exposed to new environment of 
learning different things like discipline,rote learning,things to 
do and things not to do etc. During this phase kids  find 
themselves  in a situation where everybody starts expecting a lot
from them directly or indirectly.
Age group 6-11:- CURIOSITY & EXPLORER ;By the age of 6 years
brain is developed to approx 90%. Kids are very curious during
this phase to know about things going on around them.They want
reason and logic for all the things good or bad going on in their
surroundings. Amazingly explorer. In this phase very special care 
should be taken so that: they are;

• encouraged
• appreciated
• answered to questions
• genuinely concerned
• given room to make mistakes
• curious
• allowed to ask questions
• understood first
• listened carefully
• good inquirers
• nature loving
• caring
• given respect
• courageous
• risk takers
• thinkers
• leaders
• good managers
• readers
• speakers & orators
• reflective
• responsible
• initiators
• cooperative
• self sacrificing
• having win/win mind set
• team workers
• having balanced life
• learners
• good at imagination
• expressive
• procative
• best time managers
• having good habits
• good priortizers
• best planners
• best executers
• aware of their roles
• independent
• value interdependence
• disciplined
• well behaved
• communicators
• knowledgeable
• open-minded