In the last article we talked about general pains of parents. It is duty of parents that they nurture their child keeping in mind the fact;as well said that," instead of giving a fish everyday,teach your child how to catch fish." Means make child independent and skillful.Why in majority of cases result is not as per expectations. Today we will discuss underlying reasons(problems) for these pains.Some of problem behind these pains are as follows:
(a) Lack of healthy communication
(b) Lack of trust
(c) Family not based on principles
(d) Too much interference,checks & controls
(e) Unaware of worth and potential of child
(f) Comparing all the time
(g) Highly unreal expectations
(h) Indulgence in win/lose attitude
(i) Wrong paradigm
(j) To give advice without listening & understanding
(k) Lack of genuine concern
(l) Highly possessive & protective
(m)Lack of counselling etc...
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